Girls Dress

Why do girls dress to show cleavage and then get mad when people look?

Same goes for short skirts, shorts, belly showing shirts and so on? What is the matter with girls? Why would it bother you if they take a long look, if you are displaying it, then why would it freak you out? you are aware that men aren't thinking nice thoughts about you, they are thinking sexual, depraving thoughts, and that doesn't bother you?

Public Comments

1. One word. Stupidity.
2. I don't dress like that and then get mad when guys look... unless they take too long of a look, and then it just gets creepy and makes me think they're a molester/rapist/pedophile.
3. Uuh.. You have to be more subtle
4. Some are like bad photographs; underdeveloped and over-exposed.
5. girls want you to look, but they want to act like they are "offended" when you do look when really they enjoy the attention. girls who wear those things are just attention-seekers
6. I agree because if you don't want people to look at you, don't wear those clothes. People should be looking at what your face tells about you, not your body.
7. mere ignorance. they should be expecting it, wouldnt ya think?
8. I couldn't agree with you more. It's like putting sweet, tempting food out for all to see and then getting upset when someone wants to sample it. Girls - if you don't want people to stare or make suggestive comments, then don't dress as if you do!! It's common sense here!!
9. What are you talking about? Maybe they get mad when you look.
10. I show off my chest b/c I'm proud of what I have. I don't go flashing them around but I wear tank tops because I'm not afraid to show off my 36DD's. I'm 18, they're only going to be this high for so long. I've learned that you don't have to be skinny to look good. I'm 180 lbs. I got really upset when my weight sky rocketed because of my birth control but I've accepted it now and I'd rather have big boobs, a big a$$ and NOT a flat stomach then be a board. I like my body and I don't get mad if people look. I don't care what they are thinking. Everything they see is for my boyfriend and him only. They won't think you're a whore if you don't act like one. I stick to one man and one only. I have been down at my lowest point when I was 14 and raped. What people think about me now can't be anywhere near what people thought then. I was having people tell me it was my fault and that I should kill myself. I'm not going to let losers like that keep me down.
11. nothing is the matter, per se. girls are shown by society to dress like that all the time: MTV, tv shows, fashion generally speaking ... however, then they are told "but don't appreciate the attention". society, not just girls, are generally the problem. the whole things sort of confusing.
12. most girls wear sexy stuff because it makes them feel good about themselve and it is not to impress.they feel unease when you stare at them, they dont need anyone giving them a cheap look.girls are so sophisticated now and they certainly know what they want from life and dont need to answere to anyone .its their life and they could do what they want.
13. It isn't just the GIRLS, but WOMEN, too! Except for an old friend of mine. She ENJOYS the looks (38DD).
14. depend on what she view it is white people culture, for them this type of dress is normal if you are white, she doesn't mine you look at her, she might think happy if you are other race, hard to say maybe she thinks you are bad , rapist and doubt "what are you doing" "what you want " "what are you looking at" because at that time she thinks she is the most beautiful in the world something like that better way to solve this problem to know what race you are if white girl dress like this, and you are other race you have to look on other side, otherwise she will frame you becaue it is not for you, it is only for her race look at other side she only laugh at you but if you look at her, you will get trouble good luck people
15. Regardless of the skin color, if they wear those kind of clothings, and mad being stared at.....that either mean they are STUPID or CONFUSED!!!! They should live on the moon! Logically, if you show, people watch OR STARE, naturally.