well, i'm not a huge overweight girl. i'm of pretty average build, its just my hips and legs (mainly the thigh area) are wider. i don't have a flat stomach, but it doesn't hang out, you only notice it if i wear really tight stuff. anyways i'm not quite sure what to get, because a-line skirts seem to make me look bigger than i am. any suggestions? and maybe so examples of good skirts would help too! and should i belt the skirt, or is it ok to wear it with the shirt out? any good tips on how to wear a skirt?